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Sub Frenzy and Compulsive Behavior ⋆ Rain DeGrey

Sub Frenzy is a state many newbie submissives enter when they first join the lifestyle. It emerges from the excitement of finally getting the chance to indulge in long fantasized experiences. Unfortunately, individuals gripped by sub frenzy find themselves engaging …

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Lifestyle Newbie Seeking To Submit ⋆ Rain DeGrey

Taking that very first tentative step into the kink lifestyle can feel as monumental as being reborn. For many of us, it is something we have spent a long time trying to find the courage to do. A common misconception …

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Dealing With Sub Drop From A Distance ⋆ Rain DeGrey

After sharing some intense and memorable moments together, for any number of reasons people wake up the next day in their own beds, no longer sharing space. For most of us, this fact would hardly be worthy of notice. However, …

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Bewildered By Long-Term Bondage Of Breasts ⋆ Rain DeGrey

Long-term bondage is a common fantasy, but like many fantasies, it can be harder to create in the real world. Fantasyland is a wonderful place to hang out—tons of fun to be had there! However, frustration can arise when real-life …

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My Fetishes Make Me Feel Flustered ⋆ Rain DeGrey

Is it nature, or is it nurture? What parts of our wiring are we born with and can not change? Why do some people love mint ice cream and others simply can’t stand the stuff? Like it or not, humans …

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Climax Kills Submissive Headspace ⋆ Rain DeGrey

The cold light of day turns the fevered embraces of the night before into shocked disgust. The things that turn us on, the ones that get us really hot and flustered, can swiftly turn repulsive once we come back to …

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Mind-Blowing Experiences: Possible? ⋆ Rain DeGrey

It’s safe to say that I have been lucky enough to sample a wide and varied range of experiences in my day, and I have the footage to prove it. It hasn’t been by accident or random chance—I specifically started …

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Past Trauma Keeping Me From The Lifestyle ⋆ Rain DeGrey

Entering the lifestyle is a big step not to be undertaken lightly. Many people find themselves lurking in the doorway, desiring to enter the magical house they have dreamed so long about, but somehow unable to cross over the threshold. …

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First Time Fem Dom Desires ⋆ Rain DeGrey

Many of us invest a lot of time in denying our deeper desires. We cling to a socially “acceptable” mask, hiding who we truly are out of fear of judgment. We can spend a lifetime pretending to be a fake …

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